We talked yesterday to someone that we were doing a skype interview with yesterday about "evolving" and "devolving" relationship choices. It was interesting to realize that whenever we make changes to our dynamic in terms of welcoming new partners, letting go of boundaries that were once and issue, etc we approach them with emphasis on is this going to evolve our relationship dynamic or devolve it. It sometimes takes a long time to make change if this is not answered and sometimes we just fly by the seat of our pants... but it is always important to take the time to go over what it is that we are hoping to achieve in terms of creating more relationship success or less.
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