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Old 11-11-2011, 10:20 PM
LittleSara LittleSara is offline
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Default Thank you Cat

I hope you all know that you really do make a difference in a person's life... because you really are helping me to understand myself and work through this...

This really struck a cord with me:

Quote:
Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
"You make me happy, don't I make you happy?"
The only person who can make you happy is yourself. If you're not happy, then a relationship will not make it happen.
I need to work on this. I need to be better at making mySELF happy. I was getting caught up worrying about him too much. And thinking that I needed his friendship. It's true that I care about him and his friendship has meant a lot to me...

But I CAN be and I HAVE been happy without him. And I don't need his friendship, there are many other possibilities out there. I don't NEED to compromise for him if it doesn't feel right to me. Besides, is he making any compromises for me? I don't see them...

I still value and love him. But just reminding myself of that was empowering. Thank you, Cat!!

As You Can See: LittleSara has a long long ways to grow...
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