From Mono to Poly
I was just wondering if I could get some of your experiences on how you transitioned from mono to poly.
More specifically, my husband and I have been together for ten years... we haven't even considered dating all this time, so we feel way out of the loop. The fact that we are married also makes it a little awkward.
My husband would like to introduce a girl. But I kind of think that dating independently might be the best way to go at first. I figure we will have a hard enough time trying to find one girl for both of us. Maybe we can date independently and perhaps someday that person can become a triad or quad?
So, what did you do? We don't have friends we can try this with - so I'm looking for experiences similar to ours.