Originally Posted by TheMDC
Interesting comment because I'm constantly wondering if I'm TOO nice. I've been told by my therapist that I don't stand up for what I want enough.
There is a difference between being too nice and not standing up for what you need because you don't know what you need or are too passive or don't want to rock the boat. Being nice is what will give you good standing in a relationship I think. What won't is being an asshole about what you need, being a whimp when it comes to asking, not knowing what you want or allowing people to walk all over you... All the latter are highly unattractive. You said you don't know what you want. I would start by working on that personally.