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Old 11-10-2011, 04:33 AM
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Originally Posted by riftara View Post
We get about a month with him before hes off again. and he wants to try to have another baby.

... But I will need help if we have another baby, Im wondering how F will be, if he will help or if I will be alone if John isnt home. Im a group package, and in not to long I will be having another baby.
Is it totally up to John? Do you want to have another baby? It sounds like you already have two and that's been stressful for you. If John is away most of the time, is it logical to bring another life into the world? I'm just wondering if having another is the best choice for you (because you do have a choice, you know).
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