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Old 11-09-2011, 11:18 PM
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I'm glad things are seeming clearer for you - You can't fix him, you're not responsible for his diet or his health, and he certainly seems to have no interest in taking care of those things himself, a relationship with him would always involve worrying and trying to "help" him. That isn't healthy, and it seems like it couldn't end up being anything but horribly co-dependent.

I hope you are able to do whatever it is you decide to do easily - sounds like P is a loving supportive partner though, so that is nice to have during difficult times.
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