Your post made me smile. I have tried OKC myself but with no real luck. I know these things take time, but I also live in a small rural community so it seems that I have 'met' the available men in my area and not compatible. Not totally giving up but taking a break, lets just say lol I may too have some lingering wounds from a bad break up with someone I was with for 2.5 years, its close to about 11 months now so I think I should be able to move on
Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for your post, I could feel your NRE excitement and vibes coming through your writing. Good luck with your new found friend!!