Originally Posted by Magdlyn
The biggest red flag I see here is your h's feeling that it's more important what others think of you two than what he and you think of you two. I see this in conservative Christian circles where giving the impression you are a good Christian is as important as how you practice your faith for yourself. Too often it devolves into the appearance to others being MORE important than the reality in oneself or one's relationship to God.
fuck that shit
I love you for this post, Magdlyn - it sums up my wife and the church exactly.