Well, its kinda mean and dishonest don't you think? You could ask him what he thinks will happen in the future with the two of you and see what he says.... I think I would just tell him that I want to be his friend and maybe sometimes have sex, but that I'm are moving on because I realize that I am not in love with him in a long term way. . It might hurt him, but I think its cowardly to not be honest and up front about how you feel. It isn't saving you any work in the long run really to hold on to your thoughts and it certainly would save his feelings of feeling connected with you when you aren't with him. Why waste his time if you are not feeling what he is and don't care to be around for much longer? Why waste your time for that matter?
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