Originally Posted by UnwittinglyPoly
. . . I think the drivers generally behind mono are in many ways less healthy than the drivers generally behind poly.
A great many people get into polyamorous relationships because they think it would be cool to fuck a lot of people and not have to ask permission. Most people get into monogamous relationships because they want to commit long-term to a loving partnership and raise a family together and see no reason to have more than two people involved in order to do that. Which is "healthier?"