I kinda dream of this perfect world, with sparkles (not.) and rainbows ( not) where we just enjoy the people, and the relationship designation, or label comes from a natural way of being, rather then a preconcieved notion going in.
'Oh look honey ! We`ve been together 4 years,..I can`t be bothered to date. You can`t either ? Guess that makes us currently monogamous, neat-o!'
' Hey baby,..we never stopped dating. Kinda funny eh ? We both enjoy meeting new people, so why stop ? Guess we`re open/poly !'
Yeah I know, pipe-dream. Still, it`s fun to think of once in awhile !