Just randomly throwing this out there:
My husband and I argued incessantly when we first moved in together. However we also have OCD in varying degrees on both sides, anxiety (one strictly social and one general) and depression in varying degrees on both sides; sometimes situational. And ALL of it was untreated. Sometimes things are not as they seem. If she had a rough couple of years and still isn't making her way to a healthier place, it might be time to look for some outside help. And if you're not willing to ask for help to make yourself a better person to date, you damn sure don't need to be a parent because a large part of being a parent is sometimes being uncomfortable for the sake of someone else's welfare.
Last edited by FireChild; 11-06-2011 at 05:35 AM.