Originally Posted by nycindie
Well, you two just joined! It could be months before he gets any bites. Be patient. If he takes a moment every week or so to make a little change here and there in his profile (change a sentence, add a thing he likes, blabla), that will put hm on other people's front page each time. Also have him put double brackets around certain keywords, like polyamorous so that he comes up in keyword searches.
He should also make sure to answer the questions there. Each time you answer a question it comes up on many peoples' homepages. Of course, answering questions also helps you match up with others with similar interests and love/sex styles. He might also try looking for older women who aren't on the marriage/2 kids/picket fence track.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
A standing prick hath no conscience. --Bill Shakespeare
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 60, poly-dating, and loving and living with
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