Originally Posted by DubiousProposition
No. I can't not see my kids every day. That would hurt too much. If not them, me.
I feel completely unvalued.
I wasn't suggesting you don't see your kids. I was just saying you don't have to "take the fall" if your marriage fails to prevent them from "thinking ill" of their mother, as you said.
But hopefully it won't come to that! I hope you and your wife can work it out.