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Old 11-02-2011, 08:15 PM
LittleSara LittleSara is offline
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: NJ
Posts: 34
Default Thank You!!

I just want to say thank you to everyone...

I recognize that this relationship doesn't fit what I want for me right now.

I didn't think I was minimizing what we were doing or the harm it could cause to his other partners by saying that we didn't have "sex", but I guess I do feel defensive about it so maybe I was using that as a shield subconsciously, I don't know.

I have been avoiding him lately but that's not a good solution either, especially since I don't want to lose him as a friend since he has been there for me through tough times. I am going to see him tonight and hopefully the talk will go well.

Any advice on how to word things? Anabell, I really liked the example you gave about non-judgemental communication... thank you!

I know I shouldn't be so scared to lose anybody and... I guess if he doesn't understand then that's just gonna be the way it is...
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