Oops, sorry - I misunderstood your last post to mean that by asking her to read the book, you were trying to embark on polyamory and that reading the book was the first step.
But I see, in your post before that, that you agreed not to start up any other relationships until your issues are resolved. I guess I skimmed the thread more than re-read it. But that's a good move in the right direction, I think.
I don't know which book you're reading together, but I highly recommend Opening Up by Tristan Taormino.
Last edited by nycindie; 11-02-2011 at 08:08 PM.