Originally Posted by Magdlyn
No. Feelings are feelings. I believe it's naive for people to insist on sex with no feelings of emotional closeness to result.
As always, you can't help your feelings. It's how you act on them that counts. In your case, you didn't try to hide them, and acted responsibly. What more can a partner ask for?
Thanks for the encouragement. I still feel a little bit guilty at times, but I'm working on it. The guys get along really well, and my husband insists he isn't angry. I am so grateful for both of their attitudes regarding our situation.