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Old 11-02-2011, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by leannahope View Post

I sometimes feel guilty about breaking the rules of our original agreement by developing feelings for my boyfriend... Since I broke our agreement, (even though I didn't plan on it or mean to) am I a cheater?
No. Feelings are feelings. I believe it's naive for people to insist on sex with no feelings of emotional closeness to result.

As always, you can't help your feelings. It's how you act on them that counts. In your case, you didn't try to hide them, and acted responsibly. What more can a partner ask for?
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