I have to agree with Jade, just based on a very messy and ugly quad relationship my husband and I were in. If the other couple does not seem to have a good solid marriage, I would definitely back off and see if they can work on their problems and issues. If all care about each other and understand what is going on and needed, no one of the quad should feel badly about taking a temporary break. If drama occurs because of this suggestion, especially from the other woman involved.... Run! LOL Sorry, it just sounds all too familiar to me....
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