I would say that it's about little things it's no big deal, and yes it certainly happens sometimes, but it truly doesn't matter if it's "normal" or not -- if it bugs you, there's no reason not to say something, and you can do that without making it into a big deal whether you like Nyc's way of wording it or not.
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.