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Old 11-01-2011, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
You could have said, "Oh, I thought you were going to let me know when you were ready. Did I have that right?"
Originally Posted by suziesue View Post
You seem to first say that I should have made a big deal of it, and then say it shouldn't be a big deal.
Nyc's suggestion was to bring it up and seek clarification, which is not the same as making a big deal of it. In any relationship, but perhaps especially in poly, it's important to feel comfortable enough to communicate freely and not hold back little questions or issues until they become big ones.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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