Originally Posted by Magdlyn
AB, I am sure how involved an OSO is with her lover and the new baby depends on the specific relationship, some lovers are more involved with the OSO and metamour than others. Were you to break up, you have no legal recourse, but I hope the family would honor your bond with Bee.
Oh absolutely... each relationship is different amd so everyone will do things in a different way. I find each example interesting because it provides a different perspective and a different model. I find it fascinating to see how people's lives differ and/or overlap with mine and each other's.
As for if we were to break up, I wouldn't be involved with them if I didn't trust them, so unless it was somehow a deeply bitter thing I assume there'd be no problem with me staying in Bee's life.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.