Have you started a thread about your situation? If you describe a bit about what's going on in your life, others can make suggestions, talk about their experiences, and so on. And, yes, you may get responses you think are wrong, misguided, insulting, not useful, uncomfortable, annoying, or off topic.
But many people find responses helpful. Of course, it is certainly not required and one can learn a lot just by reading current threads or searching older posts. That said, you clearly have something on your mind. I encourage you to start a thread.