But... I think there is a transitional phase - maybe "coming out" phase? - when someone is
still coming to the realization that their feelings aren't bad, shouldn't need to be hidden.
(Sorry if I'm bringing up a thoroughly discussed topic, feel free to redirect me to another thread. It just seems relevant here...)
And I still love him, but he doesn't want to tell anyone else he starts seeing about me... but how can I judge him if I was like that so recently?