Heh, I am *such* a spaz sometimes. She hopped back online and we talked more, she said that of course she wants to get back to having dates with me, and that her goal is to get to the point where on average she's having dates with Eric two times a month and dates with me once a month, with plenty of hanging out in between. Makes good sense to me.
GAHD, I want sex with her/them again SO. BAD. Not bringing it up though, it'll happen when it happens and I know that staying chill will make it happen faster whereas making her feel pressured will make it happen slower.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.