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Old 10-26-2011, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted by MayFlower View Post
I think we have NRE with the idea of a triad and that kinda scares me a bit, idk how solid it's going to end up.
Be careful about this. Many couples new to poly get it into their heads that bringing a bi woman into their relationship will be magical and then get blindsided by the complications. It's better to fall in love with individuals and then find the right structure, rather than falling in love with a structure and then trying to fit people into it. It's scarier, letting life surprise you, but it's also way more real and workable in the end.

Some thoughts on the matter, from another site: http://www.lovemore.com/blog/?p=1050...#comment-28308

See also: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3693
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