I am sorry about that Violet, especially after HMA told you ON THIS FORUM IN PUBLIC that Anne really loves you (in that thread you started where you deleted the original post).
I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that we were all wondering why Anne was curiously absent from this forum. Now I guess we know part of the reason why.
I was talking about threesomes with my husband yesterday, and I have reaffirmed that even if we were to both end up seeing the same person, it would have to be three separate relationships with two people each, not this "triad" stuff. But the fact is, the possibility of a triad is nowhere on our radar at all. I was just coming up with a hypothetical scenario.
If I were you, I'd just look for a girlfriend for myself. Hell, I'd even ask you out if we lived near each other.