Originally Posted by nycindie
I think you will probably find a big difference in how poly men approach being with your wife, from how swinger men approach it.
The difference only lies in time, not 'lifestyle'. Get to know people before you fuck, or seriously date them. I`ve had poly men try and touch me inappropriately, and swinger men want to learn about poly and 'do things right' for a opportunity to date me.
The interesting part is, my experience has been pretty even. People are either good and respectful, or they are not. There are as many 'fake' people in poly, as there are 'confused, might want more' people in swinging.
Of course, I am learning it can be very 'regional' !