Currently treating myself to a candlelit dinner on the terrace at my favorite fancy-but-not-pretentious organic restaurant. That's what they call being your own primary.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.