What I meant was more than the slippery slope glide path. There is the potential for compounding effect. Trying to apply logic and reason to a partners emotional responses is very difficult if not impossible.
So the 9yr old has already picked up on something. Has your husband hear those remarks?
With him being Indian just tell him he's being romantically outsourced...happens all the time here. Now he'll know how American tech hotline works feel.
Just spend 3 hrs on the phone with guy India for Dell.