Sounds like you have a great attitude coupled with "a few good men". I wasn't trying to suggest otherwise. My thinking was from a typical husband wife going to appointments, birth classes/Lamaze, and delivery, names and forms filled out, the mandatory infant car seat and you can drive it off the lot. The system that I as involved didn't really provide for a third leg. But I'm in the Midwest of USA, might be different were you are. And because of my own circumstance I can see questions or potential issues of parental rights. And what I mean is if the facts are different than how the doc's are filled out...and again I'm just speculating here.
And the best luck with your pregnancy