Originally Posted by xcharmedx
. . . I agree that if we became closer it would be easier for both of us. I do hope it gets easier. I think that's my biggest fear - that my jealousy won't subside.
We're all afraid of a variety of things, but if we let our fears stop us, nothing in this world would ever get done!
The only way to get past that fear is to do the thing you're afraid of. "Feel the fear and do it anyway" is the title of a popular book and it's very true.
You may find a good and wonderful friend in his other girlfriend, who is your metamour, so don't let fear of your own emotions stop you from taking a chance and getting to know her better.