Originally Posted by nycindie
Hmm, maybe making friends in the local poly community (if there is one where you live) with a happy poly family, raising children, would set a good example for him? Or would he run screaming in the other direction?
Run screaming, definitely. He wouldn't want anyone in public suspecting us of such a thing. I did find out an acquaintance of mine has a girlfriend and a wife, openly, so I've thought it would be nice to get that on his radar somehow. I'm going to choose our marriage counselor from among a poly-friendly list I found too, so he can hear from one more person that it can be done, and is being done.