I just would like some other opinions from people on here.
When you begin dating someone who has a primary partner, or your primary partner picks up a secondary partner do you see it as necessary to be friends. For example if if I was to date your husband/wife/SO would you need to be my friend and know me well before I was "allowed" to date them?
Is this a restrection/boundry in your relationships? Personally I can see it both ways, I am not sure I would want to be friends with my boyfriends girlfriend (if he had one purely hypothetical), I would think mutal respect and caring, and trust would be enough. But do I need to go out with her alone for a girls night... I don't think so.
Post.. talk... I'm interested