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Old 11-02-2009, 04:20 PM
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Now they want to know why she is being so rude and not coming around. I'm at a loss.
This is a good point in looking at any relationship. I'm glad you brought attention to it. People who become involved with others with children have an added layer of responsibility. Not only do you have to consider your lover's feelings but you have a responsibility to consider any children as well. If you decide to become close to the children, as I have with Redpepper's son, you have a responsibility to not confuse, hurt or at least try not to disapoint them inadvertently.
I hope she starts communicating with you soon so you have an idea of what is going through her head.
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