Originally Posted by Insane00illusions
I'm confident that I did the right thing by refusing a kiss tonight.
I agree. And I applaud you , because it's actually quite refreshing to read your story.
You stood by your convictions and you can hold your head up high. Now you know that their decision to not move forward into poly is probably centered around her own insecurities or fears, nothing that you did. And, looking ahead, you can just be open to possibilities, whether it's with someone else, or something changes with what they want. Not that you should be at their mercy but, if it feels right someday. But always stick to your guns, woman!