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Old 10-22-2011, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by cheryl View Post
. . . I do genuinely love him, and hope we can figure allof this out.
Yeah, well..."what's love got to do with it?"

Seriously, we can love people who are totally wrong for us. Just because you love someone doesn't automatically mean you can have a healthy relationship with him, especially if he sees love as a reason to possess and control you.
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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