Originally Posted by ray
I'm confused. In one post, did you say he said you could pursue other men. Then you say he wants a divorce if you do?
Ray, I was confused too. The upshot seems to be that he doesn't feel like he is in a position to allow or prohibit me from doing what I choose (and I agree) so he is telling me to do what I want, and then, he is telling me that he will be hurt if I do (have sex or other intimacy), possibly enough to end our marriage.