thank you for this thread :-)
i haven't read the whole of it (but in that way i never post, "just" keep on reading!) so it could be that i repeat someone else words:
IMO there is the very frequent attitude of being against something instead of fondly realizing and "building up" something;
in other words: those who are not "able" making ones' own circumstances shine, try to demolish others' circumstances.
poly-ego-proud-minds don't know that they are already there :-)
"as long a i live, i vow to die and be reborn, die and be reborn, die and be reborn, over and over again, forever reinventing myself" r.brezsny