Originally Posted by AnotherConfused
Clear that I shouldn't, you mean? Or that he doesn't want to know about it if I do?
Doesnt want to know about it if you do. DADT. Dont ask dont tell.
As far as him leaving you in 13 years, who knows what will happen by then? If youre truly poly, I say go for it!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)