Originally Posted by dingedheart
I'd want to know why the change....In fact I'd have to know the reason for the change.... I may have trust issues...ok I do have trust issues but just don't see most men having had a strong position on a topic like this just out of blue saying ....honey ya know what.... why don't you go find yourself a nice boyfriend to fuck .... you deserve it ....I know I know I was against it but I woke up today and I've changed my mind.
Yes, it's not so much that I don't trust him as I don't understand his motivation, and if it is more one of resigned self-sacrifice than a sincere regard for my well being, of course I can't go there. Although both elements are always in the balance, aren't they?