Originally Posted by Minxxa
I suggest dealing with it on two fronts. First, thinking about why these feelings might pop up. Old insecurities, self-esteem stuff, etc. These are the things you will need to work on FOR YOURSELF... in life, not only in relationships. Sometimes I'm so grateful for the fact that my insecurities were brought out so much because it was only when it became so painful that I absolutely HAD to deal with them, and I'm much more content and healthy because of it.
Yes, I do have insecurities and self-esteem issues steming from an abusive past. These have been brought out in the open with the help of a therapist and are things I am working on. Not an easy task at all. But it is something I need and want to do for ME.