Originally Posted by IrisAwakened
NYCindie is right, you are a OKC newbie, give it time! Also, make sure you are putting in an effort to send out many messages. It is like fishing, the more lines you have in the water the better chance you have at catching something (I think).
This, and also, maybe your profile sucks and you havent answered many questions?
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