so far the same even in NYC
I have been looking around and it just seems like there are not a lot of opportunities for men. I went on a dating site OKCUPID and found many women who would interest me but I have put out the truth and none so far have shown any interest. I am scheduled to go to a retreat the first weekend in November where I may have more luck. I am hoping to have more luck. I have told my wife my feelings but am willing to give it until the middle of May.
I will keep you informed and let you know what happens.