I posted this a while back on a different blog, my thoughts on why het couples seeking a single, bi woman (aka a "unicorn") often get a bad rap. Perhaps it will be useful to you in your journey:
See also this thread, "advice for couple seeking third": http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3693
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
Last edited by AnnabelMore; 10-20-2011 at 05:35 AM.