Originally Posted by bulrush
IMO: the general public never understands poly stuff, so the secondary person/people is always referred to as "a friend" and that's it. You don't have to make your private life public and open to hypocritical judgment.
I've since realized that. I'm glad I took the time to think all this through and talk about it with you all.
Bisexual, Hinge of a Vee with a mono boyfriend and poly husband.