Originally Posted by nycindie
- What are your rules or boundaries for poly relationships?
- What requirements do you find absolutely necessary and non-negotiable when you enter into a poly relationship?
- Do you find your boundaries and rules have been respected and given equal consideration by those you've been involved with? If not, what adjustments would you make, if any?
- What concessions have you made regarding your boundaries and would you do it again?
The only boundaries or rules I have for sure is that everyone must know about everyone else and when I was in a primary relationship, I made it clear that relationship was my priority. So far that has worked. If I am ever in a primary relationship again, I will probably do the same. Of course, right now, I'm not much interested in another primary type relationship.