Thread: Honesty in poly
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Old 10-19-2011, 12:15 AM
opalescent opalescent is offline
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Originally Posted by Moonmama View Post
He's not worried about losing her as they have both already determined that the relationship is coming to an end when she moves away, which she is choosing to do for no other reason than she wants to. She is currently employed here with TWO jobs and has her bf here. He is wanting to have it end on good terms.

He wants to end it with her in the dark. Easier for him but not the best thing for him, for her, or for you or your husband.

I realize you adore this man and want him in your and your husband's life and your baby's. However we know people by how they act, not what they say. His actions are disconcerting at best. Are you not concerned about this pattern recurring in your lives together?
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