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Old 10-18-2011, 08:25 PM
Minxxa Minxxa is offline
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
The question now is, can we get through this and "enjoy the perks of a relationship that has weathered the individualization crisis - stronger partnership and often even a new honeymoon phase."

Time will tell!
Maybe knowing that this is a normal part of relationship growth helps? I know for me knowing that these are stages that happen in most relationships and having some ideas on how to work through them, handle them, or figure out what's up is super helpful. So that instead of feeling those feelings and reacting with "something must be wrong with us or I wouldn't feel this way", I can say "Hey, this is normal. Sucky, but normal and we will work through it and come out stronger."

I seriously need to get that book!
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