Originally Posted by dearprudence
I have had a real challenge accepting and supporting my husband's relationship with a new woman. They have been involved for several months, and are currently in a bit of a holding pattern while they work some things out - things like her other boyfriend that doesn't know of this relationship, her jealousy and possessiveness, her expectations, and most importantly, the way she communicates her feelings and acts out on her emotions.
HOW the FSCK do people justify being sneaky and deceptive like that on one hand with "jealousy and possessiveness" on the other hand?
Don't they SEE the hypocrisy? Do they at least acknowledge that there is hypocrisy existing in this cozy little dysfunctional arrangement?
I guess you do say they are trying to "work this out"...